Purpose of This Blog

The purpose of this blog is to help YOUR marriage succeed. I define a "successful marriage" in this way:

• The husband and wife are in superb communication with each other.


• They are able to use communication to resolve disagreements; upsets do not linger.


• They thoroughly enjoy each other's company and are eager to spend time with each other.


• Both partners are creating a future together.


• The passion and excitement is at a high level.

This blog provides ideas, tools and advice to help you achieve every one of the above. And because a successful marriage depends on our children doing well, we'll provide very useable tips to help you with the kids. 

You may have noticed I didn't mention the sexual aspect of a marriage. We will certainly address this important subject. However, after 25 plus years of helping people with their marriages, I made a very interesting observation: To the degree a husband and wife are in genuine communication with each other, to that degree the sexual aspect improves. The key part of that last statement was GENUINE COMMUNICATION. Not sort of communicating. Not communicating because they have to. Real communication moving easily between both partners. Much more on this in future posts.

Having a successful marriage is incredibly important. Yet over 50% of all marriages end in divorce. And many married couples painfully continue on with an unhappy marriage.

Why does a marriage start out so bright, so full of hope and promise and over time lose its  passion and excitement? Do people just "fall out of love?"

These and many other questions about marriage will be answered on this blog. I realize that's a bold statement, so let me make a suggestion: Become familiar with the tools and advice we offer here. Look over the different posts and see if they give you new insights.  Read some of the articles (available on the left side of the blog). These articles will be updated weekly, so feel free to bookmark this site (a bookmark button is available on the right side of the blog, near the top). If you are familiar with subscribing to a blog, the subscribe button is also near the top on the right side.

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Having a successful marriage is incredibly important.

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Yours,

Stan Dubin

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Comments

[rebecca wakefield]

Thank you for this wonderful resource! Just reading your articles made me feel better about my marriage. I found myself smiling and inspired to work harder at my relationship with my husband. Yet, with these new marriage tools it doesn't seem like it will be hard at all. Your advices are so practical! I appreciate you making a difficult thing for me to face to be now something I look forward to making better. Your site is a fresh of breath air. Your book is sure to be a best-seller.

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